Rita Rudaini di luar makamah
There are a few things that I observed that compelled me to include this here, as my constant reminder about being dignified and moving on with the decision. Divorce is not a contest to determine a winner, it is a decision done in mutual agreement and about being fair. I cannot help but wonder maybe by the way a divorce case is being handled in court that makes the situation worst for everyone. One part is, the opportunity given to ‘teach’ the other a lesson. Rationale is something anyone in such situation would be incapable of doing at this point and relying on others has always bought everyone involved to places no one (who has been there) would ever want to venture back.